I'm not missing out anything after I've fallen out of love. Always look around you how much you're blessed with right now, you'll realized you're still left many except that you no longer had to cry and get upset over small little sensitive things from this one particular person that you've placed him/her special in your life.
Yes of course everyone wants to feel and be loved but definitely right now is never a good time (im 20 this year btw) unless the partner of yours is having a stable income, you guys having a stable relationship, enough savings and considering going for BTO together. That's a different case.
I'm still young, I wanna enjoy my life. It seems to be that having a relationship right now is gonna tied me down and I don't have the freedom of rights to enjoy. Having a relationship means you have the responsibility to consider your partner's feelings and thoughts before you act and speak. An extra person to consider before taking actions on anything is a burden for me now, imo. Definitely in a relationship you don't want tiffs and quarrels to happen because of little things just because you weren't thoughtful enough to consider his/her feelings before you do something. Right now, that's too much for me to handle. I've got my mum's feelings to be taken care and I don't have much brain juice to bother about anyone else's feelings already... I just want to be free from this kind of nonsense to place this particular person as a special one.
I had my friends I had my own time to do things that I want to without anyone stopping me (except my mum at times) and I really love what I've been doing now. Though at some point of time I might feel lonely but it's always better than having a boyfriend yet we always ended up quarreling over some miscommunications or misunderstandings...
You only live once #YOLO so make your life good. 365 days a year and you don't get to repeat any day that you've missed. So why not try to fill each day up w joy and happiness, learn to be blissful and grateful, start to be gracious and helpful, do things that are meaningful and thoughtful, live till the fullest without regrets. I don't see why there is a need for you to be upset the whole day over little things in life, waste of time.
Being single now doesn't mean you can't find anyone in future to love you. It just mean that you're waiting patiently for the right and best one to come, to love and be loved.
